This would be me...
I have a lot of respect for anyone who's made a career out of actually playing music... it was always too hard for me. If you think the logistics of touring a band "on the road" in the US are hard, imagine a country the same size, with only 22 million people, mainly scattered round the edges... it's positively brutal - this country (Australia) has had some wonderful bands and musos... very, very few ever make a going thing of it, many try for years but eventually when the reality of the financial situation cuts in they seek other ways to live, often still associated with music, but not trying to do the "rock star" thing.
Occasionally a band hits it big and sustains it either at an Australian or international level, for one reason or another, but it's rare.
I've had several attempts to go "pro" but fundamentally I don't like the poverty side of it, so I've given up these attempts, and now work in business analysis and web development at a major financial organisation for the $ and have for years. The upside of selling my soul is that buying gear isn't a problem!
I play in a duo that's just starting to make a bit of headway and I could give a rat's arse at this stage if I get paid or not... not that there's any money on offer anyway... it's all about the songwriting and performing...
But as I said, having read Lt Bob's posts for years, I have great respect for his ability to do the music thing over such a long time - you should write a book LT... I'm sure you have some great stories to tell..