Yep... even telling people that you're a musician often draws a certain wariness in peoples' responses. I remember my great aunt congratulating me, but at the same time telling me that she thought I would have made a great accountant when I told her that I got accepted into the university music program.
Oh, well.... it must be REALLY frustrating to tell people that you're a poet....
What got me into singing??
Kind of a funny story.... I HATED music all through grade school, as my classroom teachers were forced to teach music, though they did not have music backgrounds. They resented teaching it, and made us resent having to take it. We were in grade 8 singing totally lame songs about rabbits and holes...

I heard a recording of myself singing in grade 7 or so, and recognized how horribly out of tune and lifeless my voice was, so I stopped singing entirely.
So... I picked up guitar. One thing led to another, and I started playing in bands, and also started classical guitar study. I started singing only when I absolutely needed to (to get a point across, or when I was being marked on something....), but was miserable at it.
After about 10 or more years of playing in bands, and never finding a singer who was reliable, available, able to sing in tune, able to learn songs in a reasonable amount of time, not suffering from LSD (lead singers' disease...), a "normal" person who had likeable characteristics, had a sense of direction, etc., I became quite frustrated. It was out of this frustration that I finally said, "screw it.... I'll do it...."
After a year or so, I was able to hook up with a highly respected teacher who taught a good friend of mine, another musical acquaintance, and the singer for one of my favourite bands (who is now also an acquantance...). EVERYONE raved about this guy and the technique that he taught. I was lucky enough to get on board, and now quite enjoy it, and my voice improves measurably all the time.
Chris