My suggestions:
Lightly gate the snare (you should do this anyway). Don't go for (-inf), but more like -30db. That noise will get lost in the mix anyways and the snare won't sound... well... gated.
Compression: 4:1 is a good start. If your signal is peaking around -15dbfs I'd set threshold around -22dbfs and add about 6db of gain. Set attack about 45ms and release around 75-125ms. Typical snare settings.
EQ: Maybe +3db at 100hz, -3db around 600hz, +1.5 around 1.2khz (too much here and it can get boxy), and probably +3db at 5khz (fairly wide).
Reverb: I'd give about 100ms pre-delay, about 300ms decay time and choose a fairly tight room sound. Try to minimize the early reflections and aim for just getting a hint of 'verb tail. I'd set the wet/dry to about 15-20% and no more. You want some vibe, not to recreate the 80's.
Personally I do a few off the wall things with my drums that get good results. Keep in mind I have almost
unlimited power in ProTools because I'm working on a HD system with a core card and 7 accel cards! Here's the drum tracks from this weekend's session:
Track 1 : Kick
Track 2 : Snare
Track 3 : Overhead L
Track 4 : Overhead R
Track 5 : High Tom
Track 6 : Floor Tom
Track 7 : Room Mic (Omni)
Track 8 : High Hat
I threw the following TDM's/plugins on these tracks:
Track 1 : Kick - gate, compression, EQ
Track 2 : Snare - gate, compression, EQ, touch of 'verb
Track 7 : Room Mic - EQ (subtractive--took out some midrange)
Track 8 : High Hat - compression, EQ
Then I did some bussing for stereo TDM's:
Buss 1 : Toms - High Tom, Floor Tom (compression, EQ)
Buss 2 : Overheads - OH L, OH R, Room (compression, EQ, reverb)
I created the following *stereo* aux busses in ProTools to mix in to thicken things up:
Aux 1 : Drums - Kick, Snare, both Toms (compression--and a ton of it, McDSP Analog Channel)
Aux 2 : Overheads - OH L, OH R, Omni, High Hat (compression, lighter than the other drums--mostly for balance)
In general I am aiming for big, fat rock drums but fairly light cymbals that don't pump and breath or sound too compressed. I like to control the amounts seperately. I don't buss the high hat with the rest of the cymbals because it can "pull the compression" down and make the hat too loud compared to the cymbals--which should be louder IMHO.
Note that I'm getting 90% of my reverb from what I do to the overhead buss. The rest is a bit on the snare because, well... a close-mic'd snare sounds stupid without a touch of reverb (I use the same parameters as the OH reverb, but no early reflections, a little more delay time and a less wetness).