well,
I am sure about that there is a formula to let you know how much inclination you have to do in your glass.
it is the pitagora's formula about the catetos, something like a2+b2=hypotenuse or somethig; an enginner of an important studio help me with it, and if you want to put a big window, better look for some pro help about it.
about the size: in my school, the room has a big glass, I think a little more biger then yours and it sound like crap! all the room is wealthy with that thing for the beds:
^^^^^^^^ lot of reflections, reverberation, "the window is to big for that room".
I don`t like big windows, but in the mix magazine photos of pro studios, there are some windows about 3 mts large and only 50 cms high, maybe it can work for you, but remember that they have big live sound rooms...
[______] <-something like these.
about the sides: theres has to be some distance between the TWO glasses search about isolation:
http://homerecording.about.com/musicperform/homerecording/msub19.htm
in my control room I preffer this inclination ->\\ then
this ->[\, because the wall behind me is to close to the window and these way I can prevent some reflections of the monitors.
ps. excuse me with my english, I speak spanish.