Again with the drum thing
I just simply don't remember where I've found these particular drum sounds. I remember getting some sounds from sites like
http://www.hammersound.net/
http://thesoundsite.net/
(I'm not sure if they're still in operation, since I haven't checked those in a while)
I guess some of the sounds could be from there. I've taken a few samples here and there. Some of them I've modified with CoolEdit or something. Using some EQ and things like that. Then I've assembled a new soundfont from those.
I haven't used any soundfont there fully. I just extracted some sounds from them that I liked. There are programs that can extract single sounds from soundfonts, like Vienna SoundFont Studio or Audio Compositor. After the sounds are in a waveform, you can build your own soundfont from them (a pain in the ass), or just use the sounds in Fruity Loops or whatever.
But the drum sounds are not just the bare midi sounds. I process them further in the mixing..
I separate the midi drum tracks into four stereo channels:
One for kick drums
One for snare drums
One for toms
One for the rest (hihat's and cymbals etc.)
Then I use different effects on different channels. Every channel has an EQ, but the settings are different. Some channels have compressor, like kick or snare (not every time, though, I'm still searching for the right sound) Some channels, like the one with the cymbals and hihats, have some reverb or slight delay.
I hope that clears even a bit of the drum issue