Hi Clive, I dont know of a way get your tube amp tone, without using a dummy load with your amp, and the Behringer box between your amp and the dummy load.
A dummy load usually consists of a few LARGE wattage resistors wired to the 'resistance' (same impedence) you are looking for (usually 8 ohms). Eg. two 16 ohm-50W resistors in parallel for a 50W amp with an 8ohm output impedence. This may be beyond the scope of your interest. A dummy load does not act the same way a speaker cab does either - varying impedence with frequency. A dummy load is often used for amp building, testing, and power output measurement. Dont know how the tone would sound.
The Behringer Ultra-G Gi-100box 4x12 simulator is OK but not phenomenal. The DI functionality is good though, and the price is definately right.
What about one of those Tech 21 - Sansamp pedals? They are suposed to be the cat's ass.
Good luck!