Yeah, you've got the right attitude in my opinion. First off, I think these are kinda' subpar recordings of some great performances. I can't tell if the tracking was decent or not, but the mixes are REALLY thin...the drums are like an afterthought, as is the bass.
Man, bolo's lolly kicks ass (the song) - kinda' like radiohead met up with coldplay and had a baby that just wasn't mixed very well, lol. Is that your tune? Something about it seems really familiar...I'm probably making a total ass out of myself here, hahaha. Anyway, a little practice, starting with getting the drums and bass to gel and pound, and you'll be outmixing this in zero time.