Like everything else in business, it's monkey-see-monkey-do. When loud CD/single X sells a bunch, so will the next, and the cycle continues.
That's baloney. The best selling, most successful acts in the history of music are the ones that DON'T copy the other monkeys. U2, Springsteen, Jackson, Madonna, etc. didn't get where they are (or were) by copying anyone else. One might argue that Elvis and the Beatles did copy others, but they did it by copying others that were not being heard in their markets, so were "new" in their markets.
Even the lowly MP3 single needs to be loud so it doesn't stick out as inferior when sandwiched between other loud singles on a user's MP3 player.
Also baloney. I have never, ever heard anyone say, "you know, I like that song, but I never play it because it's not loud enough", and I know you never have either. It's a myth.
I'll repeat it; if someone likes a song, they'll play it regardless of how loud it is,
because they like the song. And if the don't like it, it doesn't matter how loud it is,
they still won't like it. Loudness is irrelevant to the listener, the quality of the music is all that's relevant to the listener.
The listener doesn't care about RMS levels, or even know what that is. Sure, we can measure it, but the listener can't and doesn't care. They're not gonna buy a song because it's only -18 RMS.
And they're also not going to buy it because it's only -5 RMS. They're going to buy it if they like the song. Period. In which case, might as well make it -18. If they can't be bothered to adjust the volume, they won't adjust the volume. Ok fine. That won;t keep them from listening to the song.
Or at the very least, they will adjust the volume of the MP3 itself when they rip their own MP3 for their on playlist. Let them do that if they really want to. But for the rest of us that don't have tin ears, we'll leave it sounding good.
You're doing a great job reversing the trend! Face it, that's all fine and well, but you and every other non-famous engineer/mixer/producer do what you're told. If the customer (band, label, and/or listener) wants it loud, you make it loud if that's your responsibility.
Again, baloney. As I am not a mastering engineer, my clients are usually on their own as to what they want to do to it after it leaves my hands. If they want it crushed, I won't be the one to do it. On the jobs I have done which I have mastered, I have NEVER pushed that hard, and will not. Contrary to what the small-minded think, there's plenty of work out there for those who do not push, usually amongst real musicians.
The real question, Greg, is why YOU care so much the other way. You spend AT LEAST as much time complaining as loudness "snob" as I do being a dynamics "snob". Give it up. You're not going to change anything either.
G.