In all honesty, I suspect this is more a question of venacular and lingo than insanity.
I suspect what the OP really meant to say was something along these lines, "My mixes sound good(to me) is there anyone here who can help me get them to sound louder so they compete, on decibel level, on the commercial market?" I don't think he assumes that a loud mix automatically means a quality piece of work.
We are quick to point out exactly how ridiculous these statements sound, without actually trying to look past the lingo, to the meat of the real question.
Not here to pass judgement, just pointing out an observation. On the flipside, soooooo many people come to the forum with some chip on their shoulder, EXPECTING free services/help that other people have to pay for. On top of that, you have an endless supply of noobs asking the same 6 questions over and over again, not accepting the answer that everyone gives them. "You cannot do A without first doing B, end of story." "Yeah, but....." "End of story" "What if I....." "Nope, still wont work." "K, thanks for the advice, but I am gonna do......"
It's no wonder that people get surly with there responses. I am a mason by trade, there is so much more that goes into the craft than; slap/stack some block on top of each other with sum of dat mud in between. But, people don't wanna hear that answer and I get annoyed trying to explain that there are reasons for each step and blah, blah, blah.
We would all be well served if the noobs would use the search function before posting their questions, but alas, we(I am including myself) all want the quick, easy answers to the recording, mixing, and finally mastering phases of the craft. And since there are none....the redundant questioning continues......