I'm calm, Greg...
It's got nothing to do with "sugarcoating" it.
Even after I pointed out at the onset that you were listening to old, rough mixes...
...you just went on and on making mocking comments and then even resorting to lots of name-calling.
Usually, when people stoop to that...it's 'cuz they have no real substance to their argument.
I'm honestly not sure why you went that route, Greg…?...as you and I have not had a single exchange on these forums prior to that.
I've had many a discussion in the past with fellow musicians who were being helpful and honest, and none sugarcoating their views...BUT...the manner in which those views were presented wasn't rude.
Maybe if you started from a more respectful position and then offered actual positive criticism, we might have had a different exchange. Oh…and being respectful and positive in your critiques is NOT about sugarcoating it….it’s just about NOT being rude.
But the funniest thing in all of this to me was the fact that you WERE going on and on about what was already admitted to as being old, rough, unfinished mixes.
Are you one of those people that tells someone they “missed a spot”…over and over again…
…even when it’s obvious they are only part-way done?
But let’s not rehash anymore. I walked away from that argument…and now it’s followed me here to this thread.
If you want to say you are sorry for the rudeness...fine.
But then don’t
“Haha, I really hurt your feelings.” try to gloat because you think you managed to actually do that.
I’m a big boy…this isn’t the first time I’ve encountered artistic rudeness. It doesn’t hurt my feelings, and it sure doesn’t make me want to change my artistic approach…
…but is it really necessary and a positive way to have a discussion?
And you have a Happy Thanksgiving too….