I don't know how far you expect me to dive into the 14 or more mostly irrelevant pages of that thread to find whatever nugget you want me to see, but I used to work for a company that developed broadcast-level video and audio editing software, and I can tell you that from a development standpoint, getting digital metering and clip detection in DAWs correct is a relative piece of cake, and that there is no good reason for a quality piece of DAW software to get it wrong.
I can also tell you that as of 1999, Sonic Foundry, Avid, Discreet Logic and (I think?) Steinberg all got it right. And this was almost seven years ago. I can't say for certainty on any other brands, as these were the only brands I was familiar with being tested by our engineers (actually they also tested products from Media100 and Pinnacle, but I'm unfamiliar with or don't remember the results of those). But considering the three or four that I do recall are three or four of the biggest names in digital audio and video editing software, I'd have to say that yes, the whole digital software metering thing is, at best, information that has beeen obsolete since the retirement of the 486 CPU, or, at worst, myth that belongs in the same folder as UFOs and Intelligent Design.
This is not to say that there's anything wrong or bad about mixing in the real world vs. mixing in the box. Just that the argument that digital metering is so damn inaccurate as to cause people to regularly ride over the line has been just plain wrong for years now, yet every so often it keeps popping up like a drunken leprechaun in these forums.
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