Checku,
My advice about the kick is listen to the original source...the kick drum. Get right down in front of it and have someone kick it. Chances are, it sounds pretty close to what your hearing in your recordings. I believe, although i have not tested alot, is the tone of the drum with the front head off, is more of a low snap, which works well in my types of music. I have gotten decent high snap results by using really heavy muffling, but again, the tone will be different. Also, you get much more snap by having the beater head VERY loose, i usually loosin it so its barely on there, then just turn until its barely tight. Then, i would try leaving the front head on, and put that mid tight to very tight (experimenting is the key). Also, if the front head has a hole in it, try micing it through the whole, facing towards the beater. But if there is no whole, put the mic directly infront of the front head, probably around 2 inches from it.
Also, anther thing you could try if you want to take the front head off, is bring the mic off axis. Bring the mic to the top of the head, and point it down at the kick. This will take out some low boomy part. Expirement with this also.
Last tip, try double micing. Put the kick mic inside the kick (or wherever works best) to give the low tone. Then use a SM57 off axis, pointing down to the beater, expirement with the placement. This should give you both tones, and will help it cut through the mix well.
Another thing that works very effectively, is to tape a quarter where the beater hits the head.
Basically, the recorded sound probably wont sound much different than the original source.
Expirement, Expirment, and Expirement. I dont think there is any other way to find the sound that you are looking for.
im out,
Darnold