I agree with Farview that if tracking is already finished, limiting or compression with zero attack will easily trim down transient peaks.
To answer your question, a dead-ringer (a flat tone control ring,) on the snare head will tame it down some. Otherwise, the snare may be tuned too tightly.
However, if you like the snare sound, but don't like the results of that recording method, then you've either chosen the wrong method or have not tweaked it enough to suite. Tilt the OH mic away from whatever is too loud and more toward whatever is not loud enough. Add another mic or two if necessary and/or close-mic whatever items you want sounding bigger. There are no rules, only results.