thanks for the comments. I do tend to use a lot of reverb. Although I've been recording for many years, I'm still amaturish with gobs of dripping, wet verb.
The RE20 works at that distance, has no real proximity effect.
However, there's a secret that she's able to get away with standing that far back. I'll mention she doesn't have on cans either (to mess with her hair!). That might be a hint.