Hiya, TLEE.
I've got a similar setup - using
a Behringer Eurorack MX602A mixer myself. Here are a couple of options.
1) Does your computer software have "Input Monitoring" or does your soundcard allow for "Direct Monitoring"? If so, and your latency is bearable, then you can do what you've done pretty much and it should work. Signal into the mixer, out through the TAPE OUTs to the soundcard, out the soundcard back into mixer's TAPE INs. Just make sure Input or Direct Monitoring is enabled in your software/soundcard. You will have to select the output of your soundcard to be Analog Out or whatever to push the signal out of the card to your mixer, so you won't be able to listen on your computer speakers at the same time if that's what you're trying. You can just toggle back and forth though in your soundcard control panel between output being sent to your computer speakers and your soundcard's analog out. On the mixer, you should have the 2TK or TAPE to CTRL ROOM button pressed.
2) If latency is too high (usually 10msec is considered threshold workable, but lower is better) or you don't have Input or Direct Monitoring as an option, then you can try a different setup. (FYI - with better mixers you should be able to use the same setting as above to monitor through the mixer instead of with Input Monitoring, but with my basic Behringer mixer, it only lets the channel signal or the tape in signal go to the CTRL ROOM... not both, hence this workaround which TexRoadKill told me about btw.) Signal into mixer and out an aux send into the soundcard. Take the soundcard output and bring it back to the mixer into a stereo channel (will need a 1/8" stereo miniplug to two 1/4" mono plugs cable - had to use a couple RCA to 1/4" adapters myself). Now turn up the AUX level on the channel you want to send to the computer. Unfortunately, this doesn't allow for a stereo signal (at least on my mixer) since the aux send is mono and combines the left/right channels. But it does let you tweak the monitoring level between the existing mix and the new track you're recording.
FYI - the control room outs are for monitors, so they should be taking the signal OUT of the mixer. That's probably what all the screeching was about.
Good luck.
