Not really.
First of all, about 90% of the gear doesn't do a single thing with the subcode. So if you strip the subcode, both are the same.
Second, while the impedances are different, they are not that much different. So for a short cable of a meter or two it doesn't matter. And while the aes is balanced and the spdif not, this isn't a problem either, because at least the aes has a transformer coupling, so you can connect it to an unbalanced input (or the other way round).
Third, while the voltages look a lot different this isn't a problem. The spdif can receive without trouble, and the aes also because it is designed to work with a minimum of 0.2V
Just give the cable a try.