...sounds like an adult movie...but
I've got a peavey ntb-5, and I hate it, the sound is dull.
Best bet, buy a new guitar. If you don't like it, it's unlikely you will be able to turn it into what you are after.
So, I'm gonna search for emg single-coils to replace humbuckers, change the bridge to a Schaller roller, and the nut to something else than plastic.
..and..
Do NOT go with the Schaller roller bridge, they sound awful. They are a really bad design, in my opinion (and I had one on a guitar for years...changing that guitar to a standard hard tail strat bridge was one of the best tonal changes I've ever made to a guitar). Changing to a bone nut is a good idea, but it will make little to no difference in the sound of the guitar. As for pickups, well, lots of choices there, but it sounds like you know what you want.
It's unpainted wood. So I figured I'd like it to shine.
I'm thinking about french polishing it, but is it so fragile finish that I've read??
..that you can scratch it with a fingernail??
...I could polish the neck too, but will sweat dissolve it??
French Polish is much more robust than some people would have you believe, but I'd still avoid it. Shellac doesn't usually have much problem with water, but sweat can sometime cause problems, and it is easily ruined by alcohol, so it is probably a bad idea if you ever play in bars. French polish is more than just shellac though, it is the process by which it is applied, and I have never seen a single guitar where it was well done, even by guys who are supposedly the best in the business. Well, at least I haven't seen it on a guitar which was less than 80 years old at this point. It is extremely skilled work, and I promise that you can not do a job which will make you happy. If you want a good gloss finish, your best bet is either
LMI's KTM-9 or
Stewart-MacDonald's ColorTone Waterbase Lacquer. Before you do any finish work, buy a copy of Dan Erlewine's
Guitar Finishing Step-By-Step. It will make your life much easier. Both finishes are easy to apply, look very good, and are quite safe to use.
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