Check out Discrete Drums samples and loops. These are the real thing - decently recorded real drums played by an actual person in a studio, miked up clearly. On the loops, each ' song' style has 14-15 segments: different fills, intros, end crashes, lots of stuff.
IMHO, that is.
They also offer a disc of the same stuff, which I haven't heard (but sounds interesting) that has been lobotomized by Craig Anderton. It's called something like 'Turbulent Filth Monsters' or something like that.
Drums seem to be one of the biggest challenges for many home studios. It takes gear, ability, and lots of space to use real drums, and home studios rarely have all three.
Good Luck