A little more clarification:
I don't like micing up every tom, every cymbal, etc.
For the most part, I'm very happy with the overall balance of the kit, just using two overheads, kick, and snare mic and leaving it at that. That's the case about 60% of the time.
The other 40%, I get guys in here who are just a bit aggressive on the cymbals, or perhaps the cymbals themselves have an overly-aggressive tone or timbre. Even in those instances, the balance is pretty close, save for some erant cymbal crashes or chunky hi-hat from time to time.
I'm looking for ideas on how to minimize the role of the cymbals. At times, they're just too damn loud. I realize if I mic every single piece of the kit, I can then adjust the levels from there, but frankly, when I do that, it sounds artificial -- like a drum machine.
Was just wondering if anyone has any ideas mic positioning-wise . . . technique-wise (other than telling the drummer to lay off the cymbals a bit

) . . . or even if there's a particular brand of cymbal that just simply doesn't make as much sound when you hit it (? ? ? Hmmm. Now that's an idea I might want to take to the drum forum).
Thanks again, and sorry for the ambiguity.