Actually, a ribbon bi-directional mic is a "velocity" mic that responds mainly to directional air motion, not air pressure. A pressure mic responds primarily to air pressure, not air motion. A pressure gradient pattern is a combination of the two.
Not that's kinda the "techy" version, but like lotsa things, it helps visualize what we're talking about , but it ain't completely true; just true enough to get the idea across.
For example, there are pressure mics that are made to be flat off axis (in the "diffuse" field), but on axis, they have a rising high end, which makes it a little directional at high frequencies. If it's made to be flat on axis, it will roll off the high end as it goes off axis. Sorry, but that's how the physics works. B&K make nose cones and other add-ons to help make their mics a little flatter in all directions, but those things add their own problems.
The physical size (and the width) of the capsule, ribbon, body, grill, housing, etc. all contribute to the overall curve and polar response.
The wavelength of a 7,000Hz note is roughly 2 inches - a 1/2 wavelength of 7kHz is roughly 1 inch. See any dimensions there that sound familiar? Gee, I wonder what happens to a 1" long note when it hits a 1" wide blockage?
A condenser capsule is built kinda like a drum, isn't it? Does a drum have a natural resonance? Does a condenser capsule have a natural resonance? Can you tune the drum a little by changing the head tension? Can you tune the capsule a little by changing the diaphragm tension? Does the drum stop resonating when you tune the head? Does the capsule stop resonating when you tune the diaphragm?
Mics are complicated little beasts; they're a compromise at best. They hafta obey the laws of physics, just like we all do, but there are "fudge factors" you can use, to kinda sneak around the obvious laws.
But in the end, you pay a price for trying to get around those laws. You sacrifice something a little less critical, or you pay a price for hand tuning something to "trick it out", but the price is always there. Break a law "here", pay for it "there".
That's what designing a mic is all about. And that's why there are no simple answers.