I can totally relate...
My style is more melodic as well...so if anyone needs "Back in Black" vocal tips I will refer you to .......
.......my friend Eddie... LOL!!
I couldn't sing BIB if I tried!! Well - I could try but it wouldn't be very good.
Chessparov...
Some very good points! It is one thing to sing with good tone and pitch but trying to find your character is not easy... I often find people who aren't really great singers have much more character than I do....and it frustrates the hell outta me!! But - in fairness to me - I can hear a tune once or twice and start singing harmonies. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.
As far as finding your "voice" - it must come naturally. One can't force fit a BIB style if when you open up and sing it sounds more like Freddie Mercury or Steve Perry...
Be true to yourself and be happy. Sure you may not ever sound like Bob Dylan but remember...Bob Dylan doesn't sing like Steve Perry. What point am I trying to make?
If you sing in a melodic fashion - write more melodic music.
If you sing like the cat from AC/DC - write music which calls for a grind to the voice.
Me - I always wanted to sing like Robert Plant. Melodic yet charismatic...Character yet control...
At best I can come close on some songs....
But here's the key...and it goes back to a previous statement.... (mgiles??)
Relax and let it go. Remember - even the BEST singers in the world will miss a note or two. That's what punch-ins are for!
I know what you are thinking...I just heard the Back Street Boys "live" and they were perfect! Or were they?? Watch closely.......lip sync on many parts.... I'm sorry but most can't dance like that and hit it spot on! I even noticed Micheal Jackson - as good as he is - lip sync'ed a few parts during his anniversary special...
Well - back to the point...
The more you are true to your style - your abilities - your limitations and the more you just belt it out - the better your performances will become!
Always remember...you are not singing LIVE. Punch-ins and fixes are OK. Accept them! No one will hear your screw-ups but you!
...and if you are performing live... you better start practicing night and day...
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ps - about hurting others ears while singing... I clocked my voice at 135dB on my meter the other day... OUCH!!! LOL.....