This thread isn't done just yet. I'm just at the beginning of saying what I have to say.
My daughter announced her gayness, lesbianism in 1994 at the time that a majority of people were not as accepting as most people are these days.
She eventually moved to Los Angeles, got herself a job at Virgin Records and met the love of her life. As soon as they learned that the state of Massachusetts passed a law permitting marriages of gay men couples and lesbian couples they immediately moved to Boston and married each other.
Their marriage fell apart after a few short years.
And then she met another woman she fell in love with and married. That marriage fell apart also, aligning that failed marriage with her first failed marriage. Bear with me. I'll explain it all.
A year later or shortly thereafter, my daughter began dating a young woman 20 years younger than herself.
Immediately, I knew what would eventually happen. Sure enough, she informed me that her girlfriend had hooked up with a guy.
At that point.......
I said to her, "Does it really surprise you that once again you find yourself in the same situation that you're facing now? Both women whom you married are now in love with a man. Do you not truly understand how difficult it became for me to keep my mouth shut throughout all the years that I witnessed the ups and downs of all of your relationships throughout the years."
She said, "Dad, why didn't you say something before now?"
I said, "It wasn't within my right to intrude on decisions you have made."