No, you got that a little wrong. As soon as you get married you will have no "you time". She will want you to be up her ass constantly, no pun intended. You will be newlyweds and she will want 100% of your undivided attention. Just ride out the storm. As you give her 100% of your attention she will eventually come to realize that men are fucking annoying and she will want you to have your own space. This is when you start to win. The trick is maintaining your own space while also making enough time for her. If you can walk that line, you will be a content man in all areas of life. If you can't manage it, you will be miserable. I got my own "man room" pretty quick, and it's been awesome ever since.
Bottom line, don't get married unless you really really find the right broad.
Words of wisdom from the Gerg dude...I'm going through a divorce right now, was with the same woman for almost 16 years, found out a lot of things I kinda knew already, but one never wants to hear are true...Walked away from everything I'd worked for all those years, except my computer & music gear...Having your own space is essential to a relationship dude, if you don't have time for yourself, you'll end up at each other's throats all the time....
My ex hated my music, hated the noise I made playing it....I tried every way I could think of to keep the noise down, but it's about impossible doing what I really wanted to do: use real amps/cabs/mics in my recordings...That wasn't the reason we split, but I did walk on eggshells for a long, long time trying not to "rock the boat"....Never again....If I'm gonna be with a woman, she's gonna accept who & what I am, what I love to do, or she can kick rocks while she's heading down the road, period...
What I'm trying to tell you is don't ever try to change yourself, or stop doing things you love because somebody else wants you to, it'll come back to bite you in the ass eventually...
In short,take your time, & make sure she's the right one, then, think it over again....
Don't ever settle on a broad. That's a no-win. Find the right one or stay single. You let one get away, but there are others.
Exactly...there's millions of 'em out there, just finding the "one" is the whole deal....Hang in there dude...
Sorry to go off-topic & derail this thread, but I felt I needed to speak up before this guy does something he's gonna regret....
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