Just my opinion,
but i wouldn't buy new.
Drums remind me of cars where they lose value as you drive them off the lot.
In my local craigs, there are fantastic deals every week on used drums.
If they don't have to match, or be collectable, or be in perfect condition, so much the better.
The best deals are on whole kits.
Once they decide to get rid of the big pile of drums in the garage, they want to see it gone.
they dont want to piece it out.
For recording, i like smaller kits. i think they mic up better.
besides, do you really want to have a huge kit that takes up half a room,
that's really loud?
Ok, maybe you do.
but still.
Agree on the need for quality cymbals.
Again, i find smaller cymbal sizes mic up better.
Try to tame the wash from a 24 inch ride.
Zildian A's from the 60's and 70's can be had for $100 on my local craigs.
for recording, i would eventually try to get a couple of extra snares.
The snare is the signature sound of popular music.
It's much easier to audition a few snares in a session, than spend
hours trying different effects and mics to get a different sound.
i find each snare has a place when you tune them where they speak.
it's a waste of time to try and get a snare to sound like another snare when it doesn't want to.