Are we losing too much of ourself in the studio to achieve perfection?
Yes and no.
But that's not necessarily
a modern thing. There have long been perfectionists that irritated the more, shall we say, intuitive, spontaneous musicians.
Bear in mind also that as home recorders, we do our thing in a variety of different spheres and guises.
I once explained to my drummer friend that I wanted my stuff to be neither slick nor slack. In other words, I wanted a certain amount of spontaneity but I didn't want sloppiness and there are certain things I'm just not going to tolerate. For instance, he had this habit at the end of a take of tinging the hi hat or ride and it used to drive me up the wall because I couldn't edit it out when I wanted a good decay. My other drumming mate would move about on his stool and you'd hear it on the recording. So I got into making big, obvious
"don't hit the hats ! Don't make any noise" signs at the end of takes with my hands and facial expressions.
I also think it's part of a learning process. Sometimes, laughter at the end of a take is appropriate. But not on every song ! So as time goes by, one learns what to let go.
In terms of the actual singing or playing, I want useful performances not sloppy anything goes raffifia.
The studio tools are a vital part of getting that. But whatever wonderful tools I might have at my disposal to correct the odd fluff once in a while, I want good performances. I've had arguments with friends for not giving me that, I've had near fallouts because of it. Put the effort in !
While I know that I could just get a chorus of backing vocals sung once then pasted to the other choruses, it wouldn't even occur to me to try it because it's easier and more satisfying to sing all of the choruses and treble track them at different speeds for a juicy effect.
No, I like editing sometimes, I like experimenting, but perfection doesn't interest me. I was enthralled by and influenced by all
the studio stories I used to {and still do} read about.