I'm with Mike on this one. I don't think any of the mixes sound bad at all. They may not be in the higher echelon of home recordings, but other than the things mjb pointed out about levels {and they may just be subjective to me}, the way you describe your mixes is way out of kilter from how they sound to me.
Well, precisely. That's why conversations like these are always going to be fraught with difficulty.
While that seems logical, and is true in some cases, it presupposes there being some universal standard to which everyone subscribes. And that simply doesn't exist. I'd say most people that mix songs have an approximate idea of what sounds terrible. But the scope of "right" is pretty wide.
As you said, it's subjective.
Ever since recordings were first made, there has been variable quality in terms of mixing.
But who determines what sounds good or right ? How does one square a "good" punk rock mix to a classical buff that thinks it's all noise ?
I love the Rolling Stones 60s work, but I think they're pretty poorly mixed. It doesn't stop me listening to them but compared to even the Pretty Things, they're surprisingly crummy.
Yes and no.
This comes back to subjectivity again. You might detest my mix because I've panned the drums hard left, the bass hard right and the lead vocal at 2 o'clock. Or you might like your bass light and feathery, but dislike my mix because I like my bass heavy and dominant. In either case, does this make a bad mix ? Is a mix bad just because 2 million people don't like it ?
Fair enough, but how and what determines that the life is being sucked out of it ? What if the mixer actually wants the mix sounding that way ? Why should your determination of "good" have pre-eminence over that of the mixer ?
I agree. The key word here is "Beginners."
Unless you were deliberately jesting, I don't think you have rightly understood the point I made or the analogy I used to illustrate it.
My question to you was about the fixed and inanimate against the dynamic and living. The spectrum analyser and the online test represent the fixed, inanimate and cold that do not engage in an alive way with the living. Your ears and your view of the wife represent the real time, living, thinking human being.
If you thought a piece of music or a mix sounded good, it matters not one jot if the analyser "tells" you that it's not aggressive enough or too aggressive.
I remember back in 2001 when my wife and I had our first child. The "manual" that the NHS sent us told us to not have the room we were in more than 18° as this would be harmful for the baby and could lead to cot death. Well, our son was born in December, and December in London is flaming cold ! The thermometer never went below 20° and even at that, we were freezing our butts off. After a couple of days, we said 'stuff this !' and put the heating on so the room was hot and our son is now 19 and alive and well ! We didn't need an inanimate object telling us we should be warm enough when we were cold....and if a mix sounds good to you, then it shouldn't need all the jiggery pokery to correct your impression.
Now, that said, it's a common occurrence to many of us to think something sounds good/right/great and then to come back to it a while later and it doesn't sound good at all. But it's the individual making that assessment, not some machine. Your correction of my analogy actually, unwittingly, made my point for me; in realizing your wife was shallow after 25 years, you've reached that decision yourself, through living with her, not because some online test {frequency analyser} you filled out told you that this is how she must be.