Pearl has mesh heads that are very cheap, but not for heavy hitters. Hart makes Kontrol Magnum series heads which are a lot more durable, but about 5x the price... check musician's friend for prices. They're backordered until nov. (the pearl series) so check woodwind brasswind WWBW.com I believe. I just bought a set, paid 80 bucks for 5 toms and snare and kick... Hope to have helped
....If you've ever played a mesh-head V-kit, it's pretty similar... Not perfectly identical, but very very similar...
-Joel