wow...a lot of stuff here, I dont know if this will even get read (LOL).
I'm getting ready to start on our first serious studio project as well and have been doing a lot of research and homework. I'll be doing most of the instrument stuff...drums, guitar, bass, etc as well as most of the engineering and production (yea...a lot of hats to wear). Here's what I've come up with on recording the drums...some of this repeats what others have said so please forgive any redundacies....
In regards to preperation....
First...the drum kit. Make sure the kit is ready to go! Check -everything- make sure you don't have any bent hoops, no pedal squeaks, properly tuned etc.. Almost everything I've read suggests new drums heads with particular attention to the resonant heads. I can't do this myself right now as I just don't have the money, so I will have to muddle thru with what I have to work with, but its a consideration nontheless. Also, don't make any radical changes in what type of head you use...work with what your familiar with. Also pay attention to cymbals...make sure your using something that is suitable for the song your recording. I find thinner cymbals with a nice long decay work better for recording then stage crashes.
Second....mic's and mic placement. A lot of people are really analy retentive about the Shure SM57 for snares. While this is a good mic, its not the end all be all of drum mics! It's more important to use a mic your already familiar with then to bring in a new piece of equipment just before a recording session. You will get a -much- better sound working with a mic you already know as aposed to one you've never worked with. Things like mic placement, the room, drummer dynamics, board eq will contribute more to the sound then the particular mic will. A good engineer who know's his mics can get a great sound with any decent vocal mic (that he is familiar with), but a poor engineer will always get a poor sound even with the best Shure's and Neumann's on the market! I've never worked with "death metal", but the advice of close drum mic'in sounds reasonable. If your playing that fast, then yes, you don't want a lot of bleed. For over head's I prefer to use a nice condensor with a relatively flat frequency response. Most importantly...experiment a little...try different mics and different mic placements and see what sounds best to you! This is not an exact science and a lot of people usually have to go thru trial and error to find what "works best for them".
Third...The room. It sounds like your working in a project studio or basement, so you may not have a lot of flexibility here, but work with what you have. Maybe before you hit the record button to start laying down tracks, try the drum in a couple of different places in the room...record some scratch tracks and see what sounds best. Also, make sure your comfortable...room temperature etc...I don't know about others, but drumming can be a work out for me...when I'm recording drums, I prefer the room to be a little cooler then I do say when I recording guitar parts. Lighting is important too....you want the over all -vibe- of the room to be condusive to creativity....you want to be comfortable.
Fourth...and this is a biggy...."play to the tape". Once you start recording remember...your not on stage! Your not trying to show off! Build your drums parts to the song and watch your dynamics. As a stage drummer myself (mostly classic rock/blues stuff) I found early on that I have a tendacy to really "lean" on the cymbals, and from what I've read, I guess a lot of drummer do the first time they go into the studio. Technique, technique, technique...little things you ignore on stage -will- come back to haunt you on a recording.
Lastly, know your equipment and know how to get the sound you want from the kits and the mics at the mixing board. EQ is such an important thing and plays such a large role. Good eq'ing should be transparent. It should not sound like you boosted the mid's on the snare to get the correct sound....this comes back to knowing how to work with your mics.
Stuff like compression is subjective. If you have good outboard compressors and know how to use them -correctly-, then by all means...use them. With that said, remember...once you've got it recorded, it's there. I prefer to do my compression, as with most effects, after I've layed down the tracks. You have much better control usually and you can change things later if you need to. I've also found that it really helps to lay down a couple of scratch tracks first...basic guitar and bass sounds with a basic vocal track so you can see how everything sounds together before you get serious with it. Something that sounds really great by itself, may get a little lost or "squishy" once the other tracks are put down. Yea this takes a little extra time, but unless your paying a ton of $ for a pro studioand forkin out your dough by the hour, then its worth it.
Also...keep a positive attitude and have fun! This is probably the best piece of advice of all...problems do and will happen, but it's a lot easier to get around if you keep a positive attitude!
One last little note.....drugs and booze. I'm not pointing fingers...don't know if this apply's to you or not, but I've seen many good performances ruined by people that were just to f*cked up to play. I've seen a lot of studio time waisted by guys that would rather sit there drinkin beer as aposed to getting down to work. I've had a good set of demo's ruined by an engineer who thought "he worked better stoned"....it just don't work. A light buzz to help you relax and being so waisted you can't stand up are two totally different things, but either way its something to avoid altogether in the studio.
I'm going to finish this here...time to grab another cup of coffee and head down to the studio and see if I can follow my own advice (LOL)!
I hope some of this helps you and I wish you luck.
Bright Blessing's & Gentle Breeze's,
Jim