That instrumental is not too bad AFA reverb.
I think your main issues is with the amount (and type/length) of reverb you then end up using on the vocals.
Try going for a shorter/smaller reverb if you are going to use tons of it on many things.
In your "Tear Me Apart" song...it's not bad during the piano intro...but then when the vocals come in, the reverb just washes out like crazy, and you're singing your second verse and I can still hear the reverb tailing off from the first verse...way to long on the reverb time, and to HUGE. It sounds like you have a large hall reverb on most of the stuff.