No you've got it backwards because you can't relate to a typical SUV owner. SUVs can be safer in an actual full-contact collision, but they are also quite unsafe when performing maneuvers to avoid a collision, and everyone knows it. They roll over like it's nothing. Let me tell you why people like SUVs:
1) Most of these people have families. They're not lonely cat people. These people with families want to be able to haul their bratty spawn around in comfort, and some of these people still have a minimal sense of style, so minivans are out of the question and the SUV is the solution.
2) Simple old consumerism. Middle class people like to buy shit and they like to keep up with the Jonses. Their homes are filled with trinkets and knick-knacks and they need something to haul all of that shit. And since these people often have their spawn with them (see point #1) they need to haul their spawn AND their impulse buys in one vehicle. A Toyota Corolla is out of the question, so is a pickup truck.
3) This is one is more rare, but some people are just adventurous. An SUV is great for the beach, hunting, off-road exploring, or whatever.
I don't buy the "fear of other drivers" bullshit because econoboxes are still everywhere just like they always were. All the SUV did was take the place of the station wagon, and made station wagoning a little more rugged.