Oh gawd...I'd like to teach my youngest about dynamics and control first. I'd like to find a drum set that poked him in the ribs every time he came down on the crash cymbal with a club gripped marching drum stick, and an over hand forearm smash.
Cymbal should last a long time don't you think? We went through 2 Meinl's this year! I'm tired of "agressive" drummers. Lickety split...you bet. Complex timings and fills...bring it but beat the hell out of the gear! I'm sorry....I'm getting old I guess.
I'm thinking, put headphones on the drummer with the volume turned WAY up to the point of pain and let them figure it out how to make it stop.
Ok...sorry, that's my rant for the day. Had the tyke's in for the day yesterday. They've got some great stuff going. I've heard them practicing and liked it generally but something comes over them when you put up a couple mics...they WAY over compensate.