Unless of course, I just wanted to embarrass someone.
Yeah!You added that after my response. What are you talking about? I'm trying to clear myself. This thread is public so why wouldn't I clear myself in public?
You think you've just helped your case?
Seriously.
Give the guy a call or a PM and deal with it privately.
He will be the first to admit when he's wrong but what you just did is a bit of a miss-step.
IMHO....
Humbly accept the criticism(s) and apologize profusely....."trying" so hard to prove you are not a bad guy only makes others more suspicious.
If it was a horrible misunderstanding, as you claim, handling this with tact and grace will be your best bet to winning back the general trust of members on this forum.
I gotta jump in here and take U2bonomans' side despite his screen name .......That's the thing. I did handle it with tact, by coming on here and admitting like a man that I made a mistake. I wouldn't have to be "trying so hard to prove" I'm not a bad guy if I wasn't being shot down in my attempt to make this right. Shooting someone down when they admit their mistakes is not being tactful or showing grace.
Two deaths and "Homeless" is a huge guilt trip.
I gotta jump in here and take U2bonomans' side despite his screen name ...............
He DID come in and take his lumps like a man, admitted screwing up and addressed the issue.
That's what a man does and really, what else could you ask for?
If moresound gets his stuff then all is well and U2bonoman (snicker) simply screwed up, as we all do, and made good on the trade.
I applaud him being willing to publically deal with it.
We are in contact with each other now, and as I writing I'm waiting on a confirmation delivery number than on to the delivery of the item.
So as it is now we are on are way to completing this transaction then all will be rectified.