Many of us have gone down this long road of digital discovery. In my experience, digital is given an unfair indictment. The quality of audio has less to do with the medium and more to do with the sophistication of the equipment. This is true of an all-analog chain as well as a digital interface.
Digital interfaces that cost less than $1000 have significant limitations simply to bring the price within reach of most of us. And it isn't just the digital section...all of those analog inputs and outputs don't perform anything like a major studio's analog section, either. In fact, I once discovered after switching out analog circuits that the muddiness in my mixes came from the original analog sum amplifier's inability to resolve detail in thick mixes. It wasn't the digital section.
There are four ways to improve these devices, however, and come darn close (in fact, almost indistinguishable) from the big studio rigs (acoustics excepted, of course). Starting with the most significant --
1) Drive your digital boxes with a super accurate word clock ($500-$1500). This may be the biggest improvement that those using an inexpensive all-digital chain can make. Opens up the sound, extends transparency, reveals transients, and eliminates subtle jitter-induced phase cancellations. You are 50% closer to the big guys, and you'll notice it immediately.
2) Modify your analog ins/outs (500-$1000). There are firms that do this (Black Lion Audio is one). Their mods will add transparency to the raw signal as it comes in...as well as send it out unaltered. Especially important when you consider that a single send/return will pass the signal through several analog and digital stages. An alternative is to purchase an interface that is factory designed to perform among the best (Halo, for example)...but this is a large investment. Regardless, either modify or upgrade, and you are now performing at 80% of major studios.
3) Properly sampling analog inputs is more challenging that you might think. Add an external stereo AD (Analog to S/PDIF) box in the $1000-$2000 range for your two most used inputs and your sound will become downright realistic, airy, and reproduce the sheen of the original (Apogee, Benchmark, Drawmer, Black Lion Sparrow, others). We're 90% there.
4) Feed the S/PDIF main output of your digital interface into a studio-grad DAC for subsequent monitoring (Cranesong, Zodiac, Benchmark, Apogee, etc.). You'll spend $1000-$2000, and will make superior decisions during the mix. Bingo, 100% of the performance (if not the versatility) of a major studio's signal chain (well, excepting those $10,000 monitors).
There, your journey is complete. You will experience audio nirvana, and your clients will be euphoric.
Perform all four of these alterations and you will be in the realm of big league sound. You will be more than pleased with the native sound of the digital sound (which will surpass tape with impactful accuracy)...and you will be equally pleased that it reproduces the sound of analog precisely, as you desire, by using well-chosen plug-ins or by bouncing the mix out to reel and back.
Your wallet will be lighter...and your spouse might actually notice the difference and approve. The total investment will still be a fraction compared to all-pro big-house stuff.