That's ok heatmiser. It's good advice for sure.
The thing I don't understand is my song sounds pretty good (the guitars even are a little less dominant) on my monitors and mixing headphones, but it sounds like crap on earbuds and laptop speakers. Then when I mix it for the laptop and earbuds it sounds like crap on my monitors and mixing headphones. I was trying to get a balance between the two where it sounds good in both places.
That's because your room is telling you lies. If you ever get around to treating that basement, you will be SHOCKED by what a difference even just simple bass traps in the corners will make.
And for the record, it is easily doable and reasonably affordable to make acoustic treatment that doesn't look hideous and out of place. Done right, it can even accentuate and compliment the room. They don't have to be hideous blobs of acoustic materials nailed to the wall. You can make them fit the overall color and/or decor of the room.