I finally got someone who was kind enough to check the connections on their cable and now after examining the correct pinout and the schematics it has become quite obvious that the Dx-8 schematic is not for the remote jack. It is for the channel card connections. That's why there are 12 pins and not 11. All of the connection info for the control cable is on the 80-8 schematic and the only pins that may have required some guesswork are 10 and 11. The edge card connector that goes to the 80-8 is labeled DA DB DC DE DF top row and D1 D2 D3 D4 D5 D6 bottom row. pins 1-8 are clearly marked to each connection. If you find the pin that puts out 5v on the 80-8 pcb you will know for certain that one goes to D6 which happens to connect to pin 10. Pin 9 coming from the DX-8 has 12v on it so you can safely assume that is the REC DC RETURN which goes to DA. I modified the diagram that was given to me to correspond with the 80-8 schematic.
Here is that diagram and pics of the connector cable I made: