Sorry, I can't agree with you at all. It certainly has something to do with the way a mic sounds, particularly if the low frequency cutoff is significantly above 20 Hz, the standard threshold of low frequency perception, or significantly below 20 kHz, the upper threshold. I don't think switching in the high pass filter significantly alters the "brightness" or "darkness" of a mic. It cuts out a boomy bass.
I think the brightness or darkness is determined by the parameters in your line below:
I think it is the relationship of frequencies in those areas that determine "dark" or "bright", not the "color."
Color, to my mind, is the type of harmonics (multiples of the fundamental frequency) that a mic adds to the sound, and their relative amplitudes. This is a distortion, as in "harmonic distortion," and small amounts of certain harmonics are perceived as pleasing by humans.
Since the harmonics are probably mostly added by the way the mic's diaphragm and capsule are constructed, they likely are frequency dependent. So a low frequency sound would have different relative amounts of its harmonics versus a high frequency sound, further affecting how we perceive the "color" of the mic. This may also be why, in general, the smaller the diaphragm, the less "colored" a mic is - the larger the diaphragm, the more likely that spurious vibrations can be induced in its motion, and the larger their amplitude.
I have to add the disclaimer that this is just the way I understand it. I am not an engineer (audio or otherwise) or a physicist, so anyone with experience or education in these areas please chime in to tell me how I am misunderstanding this. I am happy to learn.